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非暴力沟通活动教案11|赠予的礼物(家庭会议主题)

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非暴力沟通活动教案11|赠予的礼物(家庭会议主题)
适合:家庭沙龙、亲子小组、非暴力沟通线下体验活动
时长:60–90分钟|人数:4–8人
核心内核:看见每个人可以给出的“礼物”(不是物质,是我们可以给予他人的善意、支持、陪伴),在看见彼此的付出里,练习欣赏、感恩,建立家庭的联结,契合非暴力沟通「看见价值、表达欣赏」的理念
一、活动基础信息
✅主题:赠予的链条
✅目标:看见家庭成员每个人能够奉献的礼物,练习欣赏与感恩,搭建彼此的支持感
✅活动类型:互动手工+分享讨论
✅物料:打印纸、多色硬纸条(2.5cm×22cm)、胶水/胶带/订书机、彩笔
✅带领原则:不评判、不比较,每个人的“礼物”都值得被看见
二、完整带领流程(口语化,可直接照着带)
【0-10分钟|静心+开场导入】
(带领人引导语)
欢迎大家来到今天的家庭会议,我们今天的活动叫《赠予的链条》。
很多时候我们习惯看见自己缺什么、想要什么,今天我们换一个角度:看看我们每个人,本来就拥有什么,可以送给家里其他人。
这里说的礼物,不是玩具、零食,是我们可以给到别人的东西:比如耐心、倾听、陪伴、拥抱、帮忙做家务、温柔说话、安慰难过的人。
先做一个简短静心:闭上眼睛,深呼吸两次,想一想,你可以带给家人什么美好的东西。
【10-25分钟|书写清单:写下我可以送出的礼物】
1. 每人拿一张纸,在顶端写下自己的名字
2. 先自己安静写:我拥有、可以送给家人的礼物清单
👉举例参考:耐心倾听、拥抱、帮忙收拾餐桌、好好说话、陪伴散步、接纳别人的情绪、不发脾气、鼓励家人
3. 写完之后,轮流邀请家人,来给你的清单补充:在TA眼里,你还有哪些珍贵的礼物,是TA收到过的
这里用非暴力沟通的方式引导:只说观察到的、欣赏的部分,不说建议、评价
💡带领提示:孩子、大人都可以写,不会写字的小朋友可以画图表达。
【25-45分钟|抄写纸条,制作链条素材】
1. 把彩色硬纸条准备好
2. 把清单里每一项“礼物”,单独抄写在一张彩色纸条上,一条只写一个礼物
比如一张纸条写:耐心倾听;另一张写:给家人一个拥抱
3. 写的时候可以想一想:当我送出这份礼物的时候,对方会有什么样的感受?
【45-65分钟|串联礼物链,分享时刻】
1. 大家一起把所有写好礼物的纸条,首尾相连,粘/订成一条长长的礼物链条
2. 轮流分享:
- 我写下的这份礼物,我愿意送给谁?
- 当别人帮我补充清单的时候,我心里是什么感受?
带领人引导句式(贴合NVC):
我看到____(观察),我觉得很温暖/感动(感受),因为我需要被看见、被肯定(需求),我希望以后我可以常常送出这份礼物(请求)。
【65-75分钟|约定安放位置,建立长期习惯】
一起商量:这条赠予的链条,挂在家里哪个地方?门后、客厅墙面都可以,是属于全家的“感恩见证墙”。
约定:以后每一天,我们都可以继续发现新的礼物,随时写上新纸条,持续加到链条上。
【75-80分钟|收尾闭环】
每个人用一句话收尾:今天我看见自己身上一份珍贵的礼物是____。
带领人小结:
在非暴力沟通里,欣赏不是客套夸奖。当我们看见自己可以给予的善意,看见别人正在给出的支持,安全感和归属感,就慢慢长出来了。这条链条,就是我们彼此赠予的温柔联结。
三、带领小贴士(避坑)
1. 不要引导大家去比较谁的礼物多、谁做得更好
2. 如果有人觉得自己“没有什么礼物可以给”,先共情感受,不催促、不鼓励硬写
3. 可以结合欧卡辅助:如果一时想不出自己可以送出什么,抽卡,借助卡牌联想自己的特质
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